Thursday, July 21, 2016

Questions and Answers




As a church youth, I loved handouts. I loved receiving a freshly typed-up, take-home sheet and I saved hundreds of them!  I especially loved the ones on cardstock that I could hide in my Bible and pull out for "emergencies." Many of these handouts posed faith/life questions and would point the reader to the corresponding Scriptural answers. I appreciated that when I didn't know where to turn in my Bible, I had a tool to help me!

After digging through my old papers, I found  one of those beloved lists and wanted to share it with you! We all have questions... the Bible has the answers!  Enjoy!

                                                                          Emergency Numbers:

When I’m sad…
John 14:1-3, 27,  Romans 12:12
When my friends fail me…
1 Chronicles 29:20
When I’m struggling with depression…
Psalm 27
When I worry…
Matthew 6:19-34
When God seems far away…
Romans 8:39, Psalm 139
When I feel faithless…
Hebrews 11
When I want peace and rest…
Matthew 11:28-30, Psalm 46:10, Psalm 62:1-2
When I’m becoming bitter or critical…
1 Corinthians 13, Colossians 3:11
When I’m feeling down and out…
Romans 8:18-31
When I want the Lords’ protection…
Psalm 91, Psalm 121
When I need the Lord’s forgiveness…
Psalm 51, Psalm 103
When my prayers grow selfish…
Ephesians 6:18, James 5:16
When my wallet is empty…
Psalm 37, Isaiah 55:1-3
When I need help to love others…
Romans 12:9-21, Matthew 5:54
When I am discouraged…
Psalm 126
When I need to know God cares…
1 Peter 5:7, 10-11, John 16:33, Luke 1:37
When I fact trials…
James 1:2, Philippians 4:13

















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Friday, July 15, 2016

The nature of Pride...


What exactly is Pride? I would define it as that little voice that whispers, "I know best. My was is best." Pride is not always an obvious trait in our lives. It can be very inconspicuous. However, it's two key components are pretty simple:
  • Pride will always resist God's leadership.
  • Pride will always strive to live without God's help.
Sadly, we are taught from childhood to be independent when we were actually created and designed to be DEPENDANT on God. We were made to NEED Him! And He wants us to look to Him in all circumstances (good and bad), as well as to seek Him for wisdom and guidance throughout our lives.

If you think about it, Adam and Eve had it made. God walked with them every day, and He blessed and He provided for them in every way. But God also gave them a free will. God told them they could eat from any tree in the garden except the tree of life. He wanted (and allowed them) to choose whether or not they would trust that He knew best, and to trust Him enough to believe that in eating from this tree some sort of problem would arise. He also wanted to give them the choice to (if tempted to eat from it) either cry out to Him for wisdom and help, or to go their own way and trust their own judgement. Clearly they chose to give in to the enemy's crafty temptations - a temptation we still face today and one that asks, "Did God really say? Are His ways really best? Won't I be missing out?"

As a result of their sin, we face death every day. Sadly from birth we are bent toward selfishness and self-reliance. AND now we have to live out this life in a troubled and broken world. But praise be to God, He had a plan! See Romans 5:12-21, but I'll give you a wee taste with verses 18 & 19: "Yes, Adam’s one sin brings condemnation for everyone, but Christ’s one act of righteousness brings a right relationship with God and new life for everyone. Because one person disobeyed God, many became sinners. But because one other person obeyed God, many will be made righteous."

I found an interesting story about Pride in Genesis 11:1-9 (NLT). It's about the Tower of Babel.

"At one time all the people of the world spoke the same language and used the same words. As the people migrated to the east, they found a plain in the land of Babylonia and settled there. They began saying to each other, “Let’s make bricks and harden them with fire.” (In this region bricks were used instead of stone, and tar was used for mortar.) Then they said, “Come, let’s build a great city for ourselves with a tower that reaches into the sky. This will make us famous and keep us from being scattered all over the world.” But the Lord came down to look at the city and the tower the people were building. “Look!” he said. “The people are united, and they all speak the same language. After this, nothing they set out to do will be impossible for them! Come, let us go down and confuse the people with different languages. Then they won’t be able to understand each other.” In that way, the Lord scattered them all over the world, and they stopped building the city. That is why the city was called Babel, because that is where the Lord confused the people with different languages. In this way he scattered them all over the world.

To understand why they're not wanting to scatter was such a "big deal" we need to rewind a bit and look at another passage in Genesis...

Genesis 8:15-9:1 (NLT):

"Then God said to Noah, 16 “Leave the boat, all of you—you and your wife, and your sons and their wives. 17 Release all the animals—the birds, the livestock, and the small animals that scurry along the ground—so they can be fruitful and multiply throughout the earth.” 18 So Noah, his wife, and his sons and their wives left the boat. 19 And all of the large and small animals and birds came out of the boat, pair by pair. 20 Then Noah built an altar to the Lord, and there he sacrificed as burnt offerings the animals and birds that had been approved for that purpose.21 And the Lord was pleased with the aroma of the sacrifice and said to himself, “I will never again curse the ground because of the human race, even though everything they think or imagine is bent toward evil from childhood. I will never again destroy all living things. 22As long as the earth remains, there will be planting and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night.”

1Then God blessed Noah and his sons and told them, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth.


Okay, so here's the deal. Noah, his family (along with the animals) left the ark and were told to do two things - multiply and fill the earth. They clearly multiplied, but they didn't want to separate. They all traveled together (still speaking the same language - most likely the same language as Adam & Eve) and found a nice quaint valley between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers (in modern day Iraq, above the Persian Gulf). Settling together was understandable albeit still disobedient. But their next move brought their Pride to the forefront. They came together with the grand idea of building a "great city with a tower that reaches heaven."

What I learned in my studies absolutely floored me... they built this tower using the same tar (or pitch) that Noah had used to waterproof his boat! What?! Why do you think they wanted this huge tower to be waterproof? Because they didn't believe God when He said that He'd never flood the world again. They wanted to make for themselves a gigantic "bunker" to protect themselves from another deluge! Kinda like saying, "In yo face, God!" Furthermore, they wanted this gigantic tower (and mighty city) to be a monument of their own greatness - a wonder for the whole world to see!

I love what God did next. He showed up! "He came down..." God appeared in human form to check out their "project."  And what's even cooler, is that it says, "Let us go down..." showing a clear referral to the Trinity (Father, Son, Holy Spirit)! Sweet! You see, God came down because He understood the heart of men - that from birth we were bent toward evil. He also understood that their unitedness in this rebellion was only going lead to more sin (and more independence from God). So, God in His great wisdom (and I must add, great humor!) quickly solved the problem. He forced their separation by dividing the people both linguistically and geographically. Thus, the reason this tower was called Babel. In Hebrew the word means confused! I can only imagine the craziness as thousands of new languages were birthed!

Have you ever stopped to think about the towers we build? Monuments we build for ourselves to proclaim our greatness? Things like cars, clothes, houses, to our jobs, friends, awards and achievements. None of these things are bad and enjoying these things isn't wrong, but when we look to them or use them to give us our self-worth, our identity, our "greatness," they end up taking God's place in our hearts and lives. They basically become idols - things that control our thoughts, lives, motives, purpose, and meaning.

I don't know about you, but I think I need to ask God to... "Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life" Psalm 139:23-24 (NLT).


Thankfully, there is "no condemnation for those who are in Christ!" Romans 8:1. He loves us! He's for us! And He wants us free to be who we were made to be IN HIM! When we finally find our true selves through Him, there's no need for personal towers to proclaim our greatness. Our greatness is found in Christ alone!

So, ask yourself today... What towers am I building to "toot my own horn"?


Cool little side note -- The ancient Greek historian, Herodotus, said that the Tower of Babel was still standing in his day and that he had seen it with his own eyes!

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Open Opportunity


This blog (and moreover an "Open Opportunity") goes out to all of my Christian friends and neighbors.... I'm making a plea to the Body of Christ for help in showing God's love to a suffering family.

Last night, while watching the fireworks with our neighbors I learned of some heartbreaking news...

However, before I share what I learned, I must first make a confession. I've been a crummy neighbor. Now that I'm working, I find that once I'm home I just wanna chill. As a result, I've lost touch with many of those who live on our street. And sadly, it's because of my selfishness that I missed (and had no clue!) that one of our direct neighbors has been under tremendous health and financial strain.

To give you a summary:
  • The husband lost his father in a freak biking (hit and run) accident. She shared that although it's been 4 years since his death, her husband has never recovered from losing his dad.
  • The wife had some major dental surgeries (extractions) that she believes led to serious eye issues. Basically, the lids of her eyes can barely open. The skin around her eyes is blood red. They look awful, and when I asked if they hurt she said "unbearably." 
  • On top of all of this, her husband lost his long-term job in medical billing. He began to drive trucks to make ends meet but then lost that job b/c of the time he had to take off to get her to specialists (like MD Anderson in Houston). She said that he's been jobless for quite some time now. Not a great mixture with grief/depression.
  • Despite all of their visits to numerous doctors, they've yet to receive any answers as to what is wrong.

After listening to her story, I felt compelled to pray for her. What's even more crazy is the fact that one of my church pastor's was there and joined me and his wife (who was also listening and also wanted to pray). I had no idea he was even there until me and his wife said our "Amens."

Needless to say, my neighbor was moved to tears. She was so open to our praying, and she was quite honest about her loss of faith, fear, and hopelessness.

As she wept, she also shared that she had asked for help from her church. Sadly, she said that her plea had gone unanswered. No one had even called to check on her.

My friend and I, along with her husband (one of my church pastors) listened wholeheartedly, and then the pastor gave her his card. He said for her to call him, and he explained that our church would be honored to help them.

She just wept, unsure of how to receive such love. "But we don't even go to your church," she cried.

His response was simple, "It doesn't matter."

This was such a "God appointment!"

AND this is where YOU come in....  Andrew and I have offered to reach out to our neighbors & friends to collect cash/gift cards for them to be able to pay bills and purchase groceries, pet food, etc. If you feel so led, please consider helping this family.  You can contact me at my email: lauriemacafee@yahoo.com. I can either pick up your donation or you can get them to me.

If you'd like to write a check, please let me know and I will give you their info privately.

Huge thanks for even considering this Open Opportunity!!! 

My prayer is for her total healing - both physically AND spiritually.

No matter what, the Lord loves her and He cares... and so should we.

Friday, July 1, 2016

Are you a Negative Nancy?



For the most part, I’m pretty positive. Lately, however, I’ve been struggling with being a “Negative Nancy.” I can’t even tell you why, but it’s something I’ve been noticing when I’m talking to others. Frankly, my words haven’t been the most positive or even kind. I’m not sure others have noticed this change in me, but I certainly have. And I don’t like it.



I keep telling myself, “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all!” Yet even with this good, life advice, I find myself just wanting to gripe! And it’s bringing to mind the sadly hilarious “First World Problems” radio bit on the Kidd Kraddock Morning Show. Even as I type this, I realize how wrong my silly and selfish complaints are.



Last week, we had the privilege of hosting and housing four college-aged, Pine Cove camp counselors. The entire time they stayed with us, we enjoyed hearing of their adventures working at this traveling day camp. As we got to know these young men, one of the counselor’s testimonies really stuck with me. He shared that he had struggled with ungratefulness. He explained that he had spent most of his middle school days hating school and hating life. His mom, not liking what she was seeing, suggested the family start a “Blessing Book.” It might sound cheesy, but the way he described it truly touched my heart. Basically they took a composition notebook, decorated it, and then every night when they gathered for dinner, each person would share a “blessing” that happened that day.



The counselor proceeded to share that this family challenge ended up becoming a daily habit, and as a result it completely changed his attitude and his outlook on life.  



I don't know about you, but this “Negative Nancy” needs an attitude adjustment! Maybe you do, too?? If so, check out this cool blog I found on fighting against negativity - 10 Ways to Fight Negativity!



I also found this article in Psychology Today quite insightful:  How To Reduce Negativity



No matter the situation, that young man's mother was right! We have much to be thankful for! in fact our blessings could truly fill a book!

I don't know about you, but today I think I'll  head to the store and get myself a composition book and some craft supplies! It's time for our family to have our own "Blessing Book."